How do we Force the horse to drink
We can only encourage our partners to improve their
performance and motivate them but in the end we may just
have to give up. Attitudes toward sex are different and they
also change years into the relationship so what is to be
done. Sexual therapy or marriage counseling is not an easy
path for several reasons and the success rate is not 100%. I
have always encouraged people to not marry too young and to
live with the person first at least for a while to learn
their true habits and attitudes since you can only fake for
so long.
Changing people has never been my motive and if
what you really want is a "lady in the street but a whore in
the bed" then find that person from day one and don't
settle.
